Rachel
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posted on 07-19-2004 at 08:32 |
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17 year old virgin?
I'm 17 and I was wondering what age all of you ever had sex or if you still are one? I don't really think I am waiting for marriage,basically just the right guy and well i've been used by a lot of guys, i guess i don't usually know how to chose them or i just attract the wrong ones! I've never felt right about it and everywhere that I turn it just seems like it's so natural to people to joke around and everything about it and i kind of feel like an outsider a lot of the time. Is there anybody out there who's in my situation?
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Helena
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posted on 07-19-2004 at 09:04 |
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Wait, wait and think...
Losing your virginity is a BIG deal. No matter what anyone will tell you, it is. Trust me. It's something you can only do once, and you're the only one who can decide when.
I should tell you to wait until you're married, but I can'r. That would be hypocritical. I didn't wait until I was married. But he really loved me. It was okay. Yeah right. I got pregnant, he got on the earliest flight to Montana. Haven't seen him since and I have a three year old girl. I love her, but it's a struggle.
All I can say is make the right decision. You may think this guy really cares for you, but that all changes when a baby's thrown into the picture.
Just be smart. And remember, if he asks you and you say no, then the next day you change your mind, that's okay. But if he asks you and you say yes, you can't change your mind.
So remember, be 100% positive, but then wait a week and see if you still feel the same.
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saved
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Registered: 08-22-2004 Location: reno
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posted on 08-22-2004 at 22:12 |
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I'm sixteen and a virgin.The farthest I've ever gotten is phone sex with a guy that I think i love . I have never even been kissed which i am kind of embarressed to admit . So be happy your not alone .
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Old_Fashioned
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Registered: 07-04-2004 Location: Rhode Island, USA
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posted on 08-27-2004 at 22:06 |
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Listen to Helena's advice. I regret my pre-marital affair. And I am a guy. I just feel if I continue down the road as most people do with multiple sex partners I will use myself up for my one and only. Best thing to do is just wait. If you ever find a guy that will wait till marriage then you found a good man most likly.
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jaenelle
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posted on 10-25-2004 at 23:18 |
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WAIT!
I'm 26 and I'm still a virgin. I'm getting married in January to a wonderful man who'll be 24 then and also a virgin. We decided it was worth it to wait, and I would encourage everyone to wait until they're married. I know a lot of people won't take my advice, but it can't hurt to try can it? :)
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Rkyeun
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posted on 11-25-2004 at 05:49 |
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There is no rush. Remember, these events are infinitely precious. Your first kiss, the first intimate touch, your first expression of your love, and each creation of a child. These moments occur precisely once, and never again.
If you waste them on someone who is not your love, they can never be reclaimed. Be patient.
Those who make a joke of it are pitiable, for they miss the rapture of it. It's certainly not about what base you can get to, or how many times you can score. Those analogies sound empty to even casual inspection!
Find someone you like. Be with them. Look at their parents, at their family. Your choices build your future. Is this how you want your life to be?
I wouldn't want to have sex with someone I didn't trust enough to marry. And if I trust them enough to marry, why not handle that first?
Out of all the world, you are expected to choose one to love through all of eternity, to experience heaven and suffer hell with. It can take time, and indeed you have plenty of it. Take your time and choose wisely. I hope you find someone worthy of you.
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DeadHead
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posted on 01-03-2005 at 18:27 |
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im 16 and still a virgin and am not ashamed about it, Girls who are virgin are always more interesting then girls who are "active" to me and all my friends at least, so dont blow it.
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SomeRandomDude
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posted on 01-04-2005 at 05:33 |
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I'm 25 and still going strong :(
Not by choice either.
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garret
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posted on 01-12-2005 at 16:48 |
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well its up 2 u when ur ready
i wouldnt wast my life like that though sex is wonderfulldont waste ur only life now ur here tommorrow u dont know if ur r
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MightyMusicMouse1987
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Registered: 01-09-2005 Location: Kansas City, MO
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posted on 01-18-2005 at 18:46 |
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ME TOO!!! (^_^)
Hey!
I'm a 17-year-old virgin too! COOL!!!
I'm a virgin by choice, and I know that sex is way too special to be wasted. So my advice is to wait until you are absolutely sure you are ready for the commitment and the consequences. Personally, I think wating until marriage is the perfect thing to do. That way, you are mature enough to make big decisions and deal with the consequences (pregnancy, etc.).
I know it can be tempting, but stay strong. And don't do anything you may regret later.
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knowledgewins
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posted on 05-01-2005 at 22:08 |
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Well, i would say the best is to wait for the right person. Sometimes the person might seem to be the right person by talk and all, but actually that right person might not be the right person. The reason becoz u r not physically/emotionally or mentally compatible with that person. Most people who marry as virgins make this mistake of not knowing if they are physically compatible... and then end up crying..
The question arises== do u really need to have sex or kiss or touch to know if you are physically compatible or not?. Does physical build really mean size of the genitials (both men and women)? Do you really need to have sex to figure out what genital size you are? Is a bigger genital size always good?
The answer to these all questions are "NO".
Every person on this earth can be easily classified into 14 different types physically and so u should be able to figure out your type easily and only look for a person of that type or a compatible type.
Sorry if i m confusion you, but i have had friends who married as virgins without knowing they were not physically compatible and they are going through problems. So wanted to post this, so as to help bring in some more knowledge which people seem to have lost in the midst of all this mad rush.
Anyways about me... i am a 28 yr old guy virgin.. still going strong... by choice even though i had a lot of chances... both virgins and non-virgins... but i m just looking for the one and only. and if i dont find that person in my lifetime till i am 35 or so... i dont mind staying single all my life.... :)
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